“The grammatical inequality in the band name She & Him is significant, even if it's a joke or a mistake: The female with the nominative pronoun is Zooey Deschanel, the actress whose credits include *Elf*, *All the Real Girls*, and *The Assassination of Jesse James by the Coward Robert Ford*. The male with the objective pronoun is Matt Ward, the John Fahey and Hank Williams acolyte who in eight year”