“There's a delicate balance to be achieved by men who are to be considered "good guys" by the female species. The nice guy is a sort of once-removed son, plagued by an acute insight into society-- a society that allows just enough room for him to be "sensitive." Of course, if boundaries are overstepped even slightly, say by a penchant for Oprah Winfrey or gardening, a "nice guy" runs the risk of so”