“The lead track on Melbourne indie pop trio The Lucksmiths' 2001 album *Why Doesn't That Surprise Me* is named "Music to Hold Hands To". The title is a perfect description of the band's aims: to write sweet yet polite songs about crushes that are reciprocated, comfortable shoulders on which to lean, and valuing understated, tender moments. The lyric, however-- "I could never understand you/ Hating ”