“Every band is a kind of marriage. There's the constant balancing of your own preferences with those of your bandmates, the occasional spat, and intrusive friends, family members and Yoko-esque boy/girlfriends are like built-in in-laws. An onerous recording contract supplants the mortgage; fussy equipment replaces four-legged pets and (hopefully) two-legged babies; solo albums sit in for the "I nee”