“I never attended Lilith Fair-- it wasn't really my scene, or rather, it was a scene that reminded me of tenth grade field-hockey away games, when we'd traverse the state, listening to the Indigo Girls and XTC on the school van's stereo. This was 1991: we thought Indigo Girls' songs were about boys. We believed we were cool, sort of, ir the way only slightly off-kilter, naïve, uptight prep school g”